My 9 Year Journey With a Stoma
Nine years ago, my life took an unexpected turn. Facing a cancer diagnosis and the prospect of major surgery, fear and uncertainty loomed large. In this week’s episode of The Beautiful Bag podcast, I share my journey of living with a stoma—a journey marked by courage, community, and profound growth.
The road to living with a stoma began with my cancer diagnosis. The months leading up to surgery were filled with countless emotions: fear of the unknown, questions about life afterward, and moments of deep introspection. For many, the prospect of an ostomy feels daunting, and it was no different for me when my life changed forever.
Yet, in the face of these challenges, hope emerged. Surgery became not just an end but a new beginning—a chance to heal, to live, and to embrace a different kind of normal.
Adjusting to life with a stoma wasn’t without its hurdles. From learning how to manage an ostomy bag to regaining confidence, the process required patience and self-compassion. But sharing my journey opened doors to connection. Vulnerability became a bridge to others navigating similar paths, proving that strength is often found in admitting the hard parts of life.
The support of loved ones and the broader ostomy community played a pivotal role. Whether through online groups, in-person meetups, or heartfelt conversations, being surrounded by others who understand brought comfort and reassurance.
Faith served as my anchor through the hardest moments. Turning to prayer and leaning on spiritual guidance offered solace in times of uncertainty. Belief in a greater purpose provided the strength to keep moving forward, even when the road was steep.
Resilience also became a cornerstone. Each setback transformed into a stepping stone, building a stronger sense of self and a deeper appreciation for life. Overcoming challenges was no longer just about surviving; it was about thriving.
Nine years later, my story isn’t just about cancer or a stoma; it’s about the life I’ve built along the way. It’s about celebrating milestones, cherishing moments with family and friends, and pursuing passions with renewed vigor.
Living with a stoma is no longer a limitation—it’s a testament to strength, adaptability, and the human capacity to rise above circumstances. It’s about taking life as it comes and making the most of every opportunity.
The journey of living with a stoma for nine years has taught me valuable lessons for facing life’s challenges:
Community Matters: Surrounding yourself with supportive people can make all the difference.
Faith Can Ground You: Spiritual connection offers comfort during uncertain times.
Resilience is Built Over Time: Each challenge overcome adds to personal strength.
Celebrate the Wins: Milestones, big or small, deserve recognition.
Share Your Story: Vulnerability inspires and connects, reminding others that they’re not alone.
This milestone marks more than just nine years with a stoma; it’s a celebration of life, resilience, and the power of community. The challenges faced and the triumphs celebrated are a testament to the human spirit’s ability to adapt and thrive.
By sharing personal stories, we build a bridge of understanding, connecting people across different walks of life. My hope is that this reflection inspires you to embrace your own journey with courage and grace.
Here’s to living life fully—one day, one moment, one victory at a time.
Love LA